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Does Having A Perfect Wedding means spending Thousands?
Recently, my blogpost was shared on The Real Singapore.
Read post here: How Much Do You Need to Save For A Decent Wedding
I took a peek at the comments, very very interesting comments too. They provided necessary insight into how our generation is indeed changing. Many people don't see the need to have a big fancy wedding. They want a marriage. Weddings are merely a choice of celebration.
They view their marriage as the most important thing.
Take a look at some of the comments below.
Times have changed. Marriage is about 2 people in love, coming together to forge an ever-lasting connection with each other.
Singaporeans are increasingly looking for better ways to spend their hard-earned money. Not everyone is looking to spend hundreds of thousands on the "Perfect Wedding".
Sure, there are probably a percentage of people still envisioning their "Perfect Wedding". But having that Perfect Wedding is subject to your own expectations.
Some people can have a small intimate wedding celebration with only close relatives and friends attending and feel that is their perfect wedding.
Some spend thousands and thousands on their wedding and wonder why it's not perfect. Why? Because their expectations are too high.
It's all about expectations isn't it?
What about those who are under pressure by their parents or parents in law to spend thousands on the wedding? Are they happy?
At the end of the day, it's all about personal preference. People may feel the need to spend, but some don't.
They'd rather spend the money on their BTO flats. Their future. Their honeymoon.
My estimation of SGD$78,000 for a wedding can be used to renovate their flat and get new furnishings.
In the comments on The Real Singapore, many people were indignant. Many felt the article was highly inaccurate.
I was truly happy to read such comments. It confirms my belief that a wedding doesn't have to be flashy. To quote one of the comments "Ego will make it expensive."
What do you think?
Signing off,
Teenage Investor
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